All our lives we've been taught to believe in a certain way. That is, men often hurt the women they love the most. Now before I go any further with this, let me first apologize for my language I may use in this post. :P But seriously. That above statement about men hurting the women they love? What a load of BULLSHIT!!! Now that quote I posted above of E.L. James', for any of you who don't know, is from the famous book "Fifty Shades of Grey" & that quote is still stuck in my head after all these years. Probably the only thing that made sense in that book. ;) So, for you ladies out there wondering why men are so complicated, the truth is THEY AREN'T! Now there are some instances they can bullshit their way into tricking us BUT, most of the time, they're literal, straightforward people. The trick is to take everything they say literally. Don't overthink it, don't analyze it, don't justify it & don't search for hidden mean