Most of our lives are spent on us analyzing ourselves. Or even over-analyzing I'd say. As little girls & boys, to teenagers, to young adults, to grown ups, we have always wanted to be the best version of ourselves. And sometimes we go overboard into being the best version of someone else. Maybe when we were young it was all about being like our favorite fairy or princess or superhero. As we grow up, it was more about being liked & accepted by others that mattered. We have ideally spent most our time trying to fit in, out of the fear of rejection. Rejection by parents, friends, romantic partners. The fear of never being 'good enough' . Due to this reason we often grow up to please people instead of being the rebels we ought to be. At least for the most parts of our lives, that is. Lucky for some, at some point in their lives they take a turn. Sooner or later, they realize that life is meant to be lived simply the way it is. not perfectly, but perfectly